So much goodness here!!! I am still reeling from how exceptional Fleabag is… just insanely well done. 😭 And, love all of the questions you pose here!!! That kneel scene is SOOO hot 🥵 but you’re right, so many layers to it. Being truly seen/understood is such a massive thing, and passion can completely gloss over that. I know I am very guilty of covering up vulnerability with passion because I’m afraid to be truly seen. I do think that physical intimacy can be a part of being truly seen, but only when both partners are truly vulnerable in the first place. Thank you for sharing these thoughts!!! Definitely will linger with me, being vulnerable in my daily life is deff something I struggle with. 💛
Thank you so much, Megan!! 💛 I totally agree—Fleabag really hits you in ways you don't expect, right? That kneel scene is 🔥 but, like you said, it’s so much more than just passion. The idea of being truly seen is such a powerful thing, and I love how you connected that to vulnerability. I definitely relate to using passion as a way to avoid being seen too—it’s such a human thing to do! And yes, intimacy can be part of that deeper connection, but only if both people are willing to let those walls down. I’m so glad this resonated with you, and thank you for sharing your thoughts too! It’s a journey we’re all on. 😊
A great read, thank you and wonderful insights into common human behaviours where the default is to avoid the uncomfortable and sit with the pain. @katie Delaney I think you might like this very much too ❤️
Hi Sophie! Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad you enjoyed the read. It’s so true that many of us tend to avoid discomfort rather than sit with it. I really appreciate your insights on this! And thanks for tagging, I'm always excited to share these thoughts with others. 😊
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻 I'm really glad the piece resonated with you, especially as a fellow Fleabag fan. That scene is so rich with layers of emotion, and it means a lot to hear that the way I explored it connected with you. Appreciate your kind words!
Haha, yes, definitely put Fleabag on your watchlist—it’s such a brilliant show! And yes, once you get to that scene, you’ll know exactly what I mean. 👀 I’d love to hear what you think when you get there!
I’m so glad to hear that! 😊 Fleabag is such a unique show, and I think you'll really connect with it, especially with how it handles vulnerability. The way it blends humour and raw emotion is just incredible. Can’t wait to hear what you think once you’ve watched it!
I love Fleabag too. I've only watched it 3 times though. I definitely should go back and watch it again. We have a lot of similar taste in shows. I love the questions you've raised here.
Have you watched "After life" on Netflix with Ricky Gervais. That show I've watched 4 times and damn does it get me every time.
Hi Holly! I’m so glad to hear you love Fleabag! It’s such a fantastic show; I could totally watch it again too. And yes, After Life is amazing! Ricky Gervais really knows how to tug at the heartstrings, doesn’t he? It always leaves me with so much to think about. I love that we have similar tastes in shows! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 😊
Holy fucking christ (hehe), yes! I ADORE Fleabag and that scene is just... Well it should have a PG rating 😬 I love the second season especially and bawl my eyes out every time I watch the last episode.
I have been doing a lot of thinking on love, lust and how to distinguish between the two. Might write about that in a little while.
Hi Blossom! Thanks so much for your kind words! I totally agree—Fleabag is such a masterpiece. It really dives deep into those complex emotions. I think it’s wonderful that you’ve discovered what works best for you regarding intimacy. It can definitely feel at odds with societal expectations, but that self-awareness is so important. I love that you’re reflecting on these themes; there’s so much to unpack! 🤍🌸
So much goodness here!!! I am still reeling from how exceptional Fleabag is… just insanely well done. 😭 And, love all of the questions you pose here!!! That kneel scene is SOOO hot 🥵 but you’re right, so many layers to it. Being truly seen/understood is such a massive thing, and passion can completely gloss over that. I know I am very guilty of covering up vulnerability with passion because I’m afraid to be truly seen. I do think that physical intimacy can be a part of being truly seen, but only when both partners are truly vulnerable in the first place. Thank you for sharing these thoughts!!! Definitely will linger with me, being vulnerable in my daily life is deff something I struggle with. 💛
Thank you so much, Megan!! 💛 I totally agree—Fleabag really hits you in ways you don't expect, right? That kneel scene is 🔥 but, like you said, it’s so much more than just passion. The idea of being truly seen is such a powerful thing, and I love how you connected that to vulnerability. I definitely relate to using passion as a way to avoid being seen too—it’s such a human thing to do! And yes, intimacy can be part of that deeper connection, but only if both people are willing to let those walls down. I’m so glad this resonated with you, and thank you for sharing your thoughts too! It’s a journey we’re all on. 😊
A great read, thank you and wonderful insights into common human behaviours where the default is to avoid the uncomfortable and sit with the pain. @katie Delaney I think you might like this very much too ❤️
Hi Sophie! Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad you enjoyed the read. It’s so true that many of us tend to avoid discomfort rather than sit with it. I really appreciate your insights on this! And thanks for tagging, I'm always excited to share these thoughts with others. 😊
How funny, I have just found this comment!! I love this show ❤️
Oh my goodness, this is so good. I love Fleabag, and I hadn’t fully explored the emotions of that scene. You do that so beautifully. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻 I'm really glad the piece resonated with you, especially as a fellow Fleabag fan. That scene is so rich with layers of emotion, and it means a lot to hear that the way I explored it connected with you. Appreciate your kind words!
Aw man, I have not seen it yet. Note to self: Watch Fleabag. Also, keep an eye out for the “kneel scene….” 👀
Haha, yes, definitely put Fleabag on your watchlist—it’s such a brilliant show! And yes, once you get to that scene, you’ll know exactly what I mean. 👀 I’d love to hear what you think when you get there!
I have yet to see Fleabag but after your incredible words, I will put it on the top of my list.
There was so so very much that I could identify with especially her vulnerability.
I’m so glad to hear that! 😊 Fleabag is such a unique show, and I think you'll really connect with it, especially with how it handles vulnerability. The way it blends humour and raw emotion is just incredible. Can’t wait to hear what you think once you’ve watched it!
I love Fleabag too. I've only watched it 3 times though. I definitely should go back and watch it again. We have a lot of similar taste in shows. I love the questions you've raised here.
Have you watched "After life" on Netflix with Ricky Gervais. That show I've watched 4 times and damn does it get me every time.
Hi Holly! I’m so glad to hear you love Fleabag! It’s such a fantastic show; I could totally watch it again too. And yes, After Life is amazing! Ricky Gervais really knows how to tug at the heartstrings, doesn’t he? It always leaves me with so much to think about. I love that we have similar tastes in shows! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 😊
Luuurve Fleabag.
Beautiful writing here. I'm sending this to my daughter as I believe the message will resonate. We are both massive Fleabag fans.
Wow! I am sooooo glad you wrote about this because it needed to be said! Fleabag is the best. Thank you for your wonderful writing.
Holy fucking christ (hehe), yes! I ADORE Fleabag and that scene is just... Well it should have a PG rating 😬 I love the second season especially and bawl my eyes out every time I watch the last episode.
I have been doing a lot of thinking on love, lust and how to distinguish between the two. Might write about that in a little while.
Hi Blossom! Thanks so much for your kind words! I totally agree—Fleabag is such a masterpiece. It really dives deep into those complex emotions. I think it’s wonderful that you’ve discovered what works best for you regarding intimacy. It can definitely feel at odds with societal expectations, but that self-awareness is so important. I love that you’re reflecting on these themes; there’s so much to unpack! 🤍🌸